One life and so many dreams, wishes and desires. Some big, some small, some that would change our life completely, some that change us completely and some that we don’t even remember we asked for! Remember the day you wished for getting the first prize or that no one else did their assignments either or getting the bus without having to wait for long or that professor didn’t pick your roll no. in those random class quizzes? Remember the time when you almost slipped from the staircase and said NO in a rush and when you thought you are going to fall down rolling over the bed but then ended up just at the corner and said Oh!! Thank God!

More than often these wishes and hopes are heard and fulfilled. What about the big ones though. The ones that are seldom heard and the dreams that are realized less than often. We leave it to him thinking if we deserve it or if its good for us it will happen. There is something else in store for us. Something better (we hope).We trust him for better or for worse. It will all be OK. It will all work out “eventually”.

Are we going to survive the world and our life till “eventually” happens. Are we strong enough? And what is strong..Is it the ability to go on and do anything to get to a level where we can get whatever we want or is it to have the courage to give up everything else and focus and strive towards that one thing or does strong mean the maturity to accept what’s not yours and move on, away from what you wished for forever.

I wish there was one answer. One solution. One purpose. One way. So we could have known what’s right and what’s wrong. Some of us would blindly go with right. While some would try out wrong for the thrill of it. What if what’s survival for one is wrong for another? We never know what causes the other person to take certain decisions but assume they are incapable of making the right decisions because they disagree with us. Take a step back. Try to fit in their shoes, most of the times you won’t be able to. We don’t always know what’s going on in their life, we cannot always share what’s happening with us. So what do we do. When your right is their wrong, when their good is your bad, when you don’t understand why you feel the way you do, when you don’t know what to do. We believe..we believe its for a reason..we believe it was meant to happen..For better or for worse.

What after that? What do you do when that tragedy occurs? When the ship you hoped to sail on drowns? When that piece you needed to make sense of the puzzle is lost? What do you do when you have no clue what happened? how will you walk on your feet again with your head held up high…can you wait for eventually after falling again and again. Can we do it all on our own. If we somehow survive those traumatic episodes of life, do we still have the strength to hope for better..or do we give up. For better or for worse..we get back up..we hope against all logic and experience..we don’t know what’s yet to come..but we get ourselves together, all glued back together and stand up before life..

For Better or For worse!!

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